Motherhood is not easy. But I want to remind everyone that there are lots of ways to be great at it. Working mothers often feel guilty for splitting their time between home and office, or worse—actually receive criticism for carrying these two roles. But in my opinion, even if have to juggle, you can still do a fabulous job.

At any given moment, I have a half dozen plates in the air. Lecturing in the Philippines. A full day full of patients. Conducting clinical trials for the latest laser breakthrough, and then demonstrating that laser on national TV. While it is certainly true that I have an incredibly rewarding career as a research scientist and dermatologist, my most important job and the central focus of my life—is my being my kids’ mom.

It is challenging at times to “do it all”. Be a mother to three boys and have an outside job. People often start from the assumption it’s impossible for you as a parent to balance it all, so they try to put you to the test. Which will you pick? Family or career? But the truth is, most working parents have the multitasking virtuosity of an air traffic controller. Give us a fair chance, and we don’t have to pick. We will simply do it all.

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I’ve lived my whole life according to this mantra. I refuse to compromise. Being a doctor is a huge part of being me. And feeling good about my professional accomplishments helps me be a happier and more well-rounded mom. As an employer and entrepreneur, I strive to create an environment where other working moms can have it all as well: our workplace has high expectations, but a respect of family responsibilities. Because I know that if I give other moms the opportunity, they too will make it work.

That’s what we moms do. We always make it work.

Whether you are directing the troops from home, or splitting your responsibilities, have faith that your family is grateful and proud. This Mother’s Day, be proud of yourself as well.

Xoxo Ava-